4 Gay Bathhouses in San Francisco, CA — Saunas & Spas

Most bathhouses promise privacy, but Eros does the opposite. Everything happens in the open here — it's part of the design. Housed in the historic Bulldog Baths Building in San Francisco's Tenderloin, this venue has been voted Best Sex Club in the Bay Area for 15 years by the SF Bay Guardian and 48hills.com. It's a city-recognized Legacy Business, operating since 1992 with a focus on community and safe sex practices. The crowd ranges from 20-somethings to 60-somethings, and the vibe is casual and direct. They keep condoms and soap dispensers filled with lube on the walls. The space includes a lounge and gallery for queer events. It's busier after work and as bars close. Located near Folsom Gulch, another local spot. If you're uptight about age, this isn't the place for you.

SOMA's Power Exchange is an overnight sex club that welcomes all genders and orientations, though its vibe leans more toward straight and hetero couples. The space includes play areas, dungeons, and fantasy rooms. It's open Thursday through Sunday, with late hours starting at 9 PM. You'll find a couples-only area open Friday through Sunday. Single men in male attire pay $20-$40 depending on the night, while those in full female attire get in free. The BDSM spaces are on the lower level, and the top floor is reserved for couples. Keep in mind Yelp data suggests this venue may be permanently closed, so confirm before heading out. For another option nearby, check out Eros.

All-day arcade passes with in and out privileges make this a flexible spot to visit. Folsom Gulch in San Francisco's SOMA neighborhood offers private viewing booths with glory holes and a state-of-the-art arcade system. The store carries a large selection of gay erotica, toys, and novelties. The video room and booths stay active, especially midday. Staff are described as friendly. If you want another nearby option, Power Exchange is across the street.

You'll find a mixed LGBTQ+ crowd here, with a strong trans-friendly and women-led ethos. Transform1060 is a queer-owned event space in SOMA serving the kink, leather, and fetish scene. Formerly the Catalyst, it has a long history as a sex-positive community hub. There's outdoor seating available, and events rely on community volunteers. The space hosts both public and private parties, so check their calendar for what's coming up. If you're in the area, Folsom Gulch is another nearby spot worth knowing about.