12 Gay Hotels in Long Island, NY — LGBTQ+ Friendly Stays

For a hotel that feels more like a boutique resort than a typical IHG property, the Hotel Indigo Long Island - East End delivers exactly that. Spread across eight acres, this 2004-established hotel offers an outdoor pool, a wood-burning fireplace, and Bistro 72, where Chef Deborah Scherer serves seasonal farm-to-table dishes with local wine pairings. It's also pet-friendly, so you can bring your dog along. The hotel's 24-hour front desk means late check-ins are easy (check-in is at 3 PM). The North Fork location puts you close to Long Island's Wine Country and Hamptons beaches. If you're planning a wedding or board meeting, the hotel can host up to 250 guests. Get the full details here.

Reviews highlight the Hilton Garden Inn Riverhead's clean rooms and convenient location. It's a hotel that's hosted several Long Island Pride celebrations and other LGBTQ events, making it a recognized part of the local queer community. The hotel is across the street from Tanger Outlets and three miles from Splish Splash Water Park. Wineries and the Hamptons are within a half hour drive. You'll find an indoor pool, a patio with a whirlpool and fire pit, plus free wifi. The 24-hour snack shop and on-site restaurant add convenience.

The Long Island Marriott runs on a 24-hour schedule, so you can check in or out at any hour. It's a full-service hotel with a swimming pool and whirlpool, plus an on-site restaurant called Crop & Kettle. The rooms are spacious and clean, though with a 2.5/5 Yelp rating (from 230 reviews), expectations should be measured. The hotel's location in Uniondale puts you near Roosevelt Field, Eisenhower Park, and Hofstra University. It's a practical base for a conference or family trip. For a different vibe, you might consider Allegria Hotel nearby, but that's a separate experience entirely.

You might expect a bed-and-breakfast in East Hampton to feel dated, but this Victorian home from 1904 combines old-world charm with modern amenities. Originally built for a whaling captain, it's been restored by the Kaufman family, who have owned it since 1986. The solar-heated saltwater pool is a standout feature, surrounded by landscaped grounds where complimentary breakfast is served. Though it offers beach passes for five ocean beaches and a pool house, reviews are limited and Yelp suggests it may be permanently closed. Accommodations include private baths, air conditioning, flat-screen TVs, and organic coffee makers. You can walk to restaurants, shops, and the jitney stop. If you're set on the Hamptons, you could also look at Allegria Hotel nearby; but with only one rating and closure status unconfirmed, call ahead before planning your stay.

The Mansion at Glen Cove is best suited for travelers who prioritize historic grounds and open space over modern in-room luxury. This 1910 Gold Coast estate sits on 55 acres and has served as a Hollywood film location and one of America's first conference center hotels. While the grounds are lovely, guest reviews on Yelp average 2.5 out of 5, noting that many rooms are located outside the historic front house and feel outdated. The hotel is dog-friendly and offers free wifi. You'll find a swimming pool, spa, and plenty of outdoor seating spread across the property. Its North Shore location puts you 30 miles from NYC, making it a convenient escape if you're not expecting a polished boutique experience. The 24-hour front desk means you can check in whenever you arrive.

Ocean views stretch across every room, yet the Allegria Hotel carries a modest Yelp rating of 2.3 from 655 reviews. This Long Beach hotel opened in 2009 as owner Allen Rosenberg's vision of a South Beach style retreat. It's named after his mother, with "Allegria" meaning "Happiness" in Italian. The property offers a spa, swimming pool, and outdoor seating. You'll find free wifi and 24-hour access, unusual for a boutique hotel. Reviews show mixed experiences, so check recent feedback before booking. The hotel sits on the South Shore, providing direct beach access. Regulars suggest confirming amenities at check-in, as service inconsistencies are noted online. If you're exploring further east, the Hotel Indigo Long Island East End offers a different coastal vibe. Overall, it's a luxury property with potential, but one you'll want to vet thoroughly.

Gateway Inn draws a mixed LGBTQ+ and straight crowd, making it a low-key option for travelers who value discretion over frills. It's the recommended hotel for transgender events hosted by Femme Fever on Long Island, and its South Shore location puts Jones Beach just ten minutes away. The inn is straightforward: free wifi covers the basics, and outdoor seating is available. With a modest 2.4-star Yelp rating from 58 reviews, it's best approached as a practical, no-surprises stay rather than a destination hotel. If you need more amenities, the nearby Allegria Hotel offers a different experience.

This hotel is best for travelers who need a convenient base with shuttle service to explore central Long Island. The Hyatt Regency Long Island is open 24/7, with a pool and spa for downtime. Free WiFi is included. Keep expectations measured: this property has a 2.5-star Yelp rating from 231 reviews. The overnight hours mean you can check in anytime, but amenities may vary. Nearby, Allegria Hotel offers an alternative beachfront stay.

Sunset Beach carries a 2.9-star Yelp rating from 43 reviews, reflecting a mix of opinions. This Shelter Island spot offers beach house accommodations with bright rooms, outdoor showers, and beach-view dining. It's pet-friendly too. Best time to visit is during summer when the beach is at its peak. The outdoor showers are a quirky plus after a day on the sand.

On the North Fork of Long Island, Arbor View House Bed & Breakfast offers a country getaway in a 1780s Federal-style home that is listed in the National Register of Historic Homes. This LGBTQ+-owned and women-led B&B is run by Wilfred and Veda, who bring Caribbean warmth from Guyana and Jamaica. Veda, a Fashion Institute of Technology graduate and former Wall Street professional, prepares three-course breakfasts that have earned multiple awards. Wilfred also runs a luxury wine tour company, North Fork Taste. Rates include a full breakfast each morning, and the property features free Wi-Fi, outdoor seating, and spa treatments. Hours are generally 9am to 11pm, with a 10pm close on weekends. With a 4.7-star Yelp rating from 51 reviews, regulars praise the hospitality and attention to detail. If you're exploring the North Fork wine trail, the inn is a comfortable base for your itinerary.

A Yelp reviewer calls The Stirling House 'the perfect place to recharge, unwind, re-kindle, and relax.' This LGBTQ-owned bed & breakfast in Greenport has been the luxury waterfront inn of the North Fork since 2000. Owner Clay, a French Culinary Institute-trained baker, whips up gourmet breakfasts and famous croissants. It's the only inn in the area with its own wine license, and packages like Vine Time and Vine University offer all-inclusive wine experiences. The rooms each have en-suite bathrooms, fireplaces, and flatscreen TVs. There's a huge DVD library if you want a movie night in. You can walk to everything in Greenport Village from here. Clay knows the local business owners and can point you to just the right spot for your evening. He's there when you need him and invisible when you don't. Ask about the all-inclusive getaways if you want the details handled for you.

Mill House Inn is open 24/7, making it a flexible base for your Hamptons getaway. This bed-and-breakfast, run by chef Gary Muller and photographer Sylvia Muller, serves a breakfast that earned a 28 in Zagat's Survey of US Hotels. The inn occupies a historic 1790 saltbox, once home to Irish immigrant Patrick Lynch, where Catholic Mass was held in the yard. You'll find 4 rooms and 6 suites set in lush gardens, with pet-friendly options available. Free wifi is included. The inn has been named in Zagat's Top 50 Small Hotels and Travel & Leisure's Inn of the Month. Gary's decades as a chef and restaurateur ensure breakfast is the highlight.