5 Gay Hotels in Rochester, NY — LGBTQ+ Friendly Stays

Downtown Rochester’s Hyatt Regency sits right by the Genesee River, with a covered skyway connecting directly to the convention center. Guest rooms are clean and updated, and some offer river views. The full-weight gym is a plus. But the immediate area has few walkable dining or nightlife options; you’ll likely need a taxi or a long walk to find things to do. Yelp reviews average just 2.6 out of 5, so set expectations accordingly. Free wifi is included.

You might expect a Hilton Garden Inn to feel corporate, but the Rochester Downtown location leans boutique. Housed in the former National Clothing Company building, it's steps from the Rochester Riverside Convention Center and minutes from Strong National Museum of Play. Multiple guests note gay staff members who treat LGBTQ+ couples with respect and friendliness. The heated indoor pool and 24-hour fitness center are open whenever you need them. For food, The Garden Grille serves breakfast buffet and Stone Street Pub offers dinner with local wines. If you're exploring Rochester's scene, the Hyatt Regency Rochester is just across the street.

This isn't a cookie-cutter chain; The Inn on Broadway is a luxury boutique hotel housed in what was once the University Club of Rochester. You'll find it in the East-End Theatre District, steps from restaurants, shops, and museums. The vibe is refined but unpretentious, with rooms that feel more like a private club than a hotel. There's only one review so far, so you can be an early discoverer. The location on East Ave. puts you near the action without the noise. Check-in details aren't confirmed yet, but the neighborhood is great for exploring.

One Yelp reviewer noted the location puts you right in the cultural district. The Strathallan Hotel sits at East Ave and Arnold Park, steps from museums and theaters. It's a standard price spot near major employers like Eastman Kodak and Xerox. Rooms are practical for both business and leisure stays.

With a Yelp rating of 2.8 out of 5 from 194 reviews, the Woodcliff Hotel & Spa has room for improvement. Situated atop the highest point in Rochester, this hotel offers panoramic views of the skyline and Finger Lakes region. It features an award-winning restaurant, Horizons Modern Kitchen + Wine Bar, a full-service spa, a 9-hole golf course, and over 70 acres of hiking trails. Free WiFi is included. The hotel is just off I-90 in Fairport, about 20 minutes from downtown Rochester. It's a popular spot for weddings and special occasions. Check-in and breakfast details aren't confirmed here, so you may want to call ahead. If you're looking for more urban lodging, the Hyatt Regency Rochester is a nearby alternative.