Home / NY / New York

Gay Bars & LGBTQ+ Venues in New York, NY — Page 2

Showing all 30 venues on this page

Julius'

Julius'

Bars 3.9 (95)

A classic dive bar that's been a fixture of the West Village since 1864, Julius' is widely recognized as the oldest continuously operating gay bar in New York City. Step inside and you'll find a laid-back pub atmosphere with wagon wheel chandeliers, a long bar, and a mix of locals ranging from their 30s to 50s. The crowd is friendly and unpretentious, regulars rave about the hamburgers, and the happy hour draws a steady group. Things can get rowdy on Thursday nights, so plan accordingly. The full bar keeps strong drinks flowing, and there's free wifi if you need to check your phone. The bar opens at 4pm most days (noon on weekends) and stays open until 2am or 4am depending on the night.

Pub/Tavern Standard American
$$ View Details
Flaming Saddles Saloon

Flaming Saddles Saloon

Bars 3.9 (89)

This Hell's Kitchen saloon is New York's gay country-western bar, where bartenders often climb on top of the bar to dance for the crowd. It's a shamelessly kitschy spot with a casual vibe, open nightly until 4am. The crowd leans 30-something and trans-friendly, though some reviews note it's become popular with straight tourists. It's a full bar with happy hour, and Thursday through Saturday are the busiest nights.

Trans Friendly Country Western Dancing
$$ View Details
9th Avenue Saloon

9th Avenue Saloon

Bars 3.7 (87)

9th Avenue Saloon opens daily at 3pm and stays open until 4am, making it a go-to for post-theater drinks or a late night in Hell's Kitchen. This dive bar has been around since at least the 1940s and became a gay bar around 1980, still owned by LGBTQ+ locals today. The crowd is a relaxed mix of 30s through 50s, regulars and tourists, with free popcorn at the bar. The vibe is unpretentious and no-frills: think a solid jukebox, strong happy hour, and friendly bartenders (though a few reviews mention occasional grumpy service). It's not a cruising spot, just a casual place where Broadway lovers and neighborhood regulars mingle. If you're barhopping, nearby Please Don't Tell offers a very different speakeasy experience.

Happy Hour Mixed LGBTQ Cocktail Lounge
$ View Details
Nasty Pig  (Closed Temporarily)

Nasty Pig (Closed Temporarily)

Shops 3.5 (79)

Unlike most gay shops in Chelsea, Nasty Pig is a queer-owned brand that has been making clothes designed to 'get you laid' since 1994. The store sells everything from jocks and chaps to rubber and play sheets, with a focus on masculine, sexually self-assured customers. But founders Frederick Kearney and David Lauterstein call it an art project and a love story too, blending hip-hop culture with gay culture. It's dog-friendly, so you can bring your pup while you browse. The temporary closure status makes it tricky to plan a visit. If it reopens, Sunday hours are noon to 7pm, other days 11am to 7pm. The store sits in Chelsea near 7th and 8th Avenues. Reviews mention the eye candy among shoppers, but confirm the closure timeline before heading over.

Moderate Clothing Accessories Gifts
$$$ View Details
Strand Book Store

Strand Book Store

Shops 77 ratings

Open daily until 10:30 PM, Strand Book Store is a budget-friendly stop for book lovers in Manhattan. Its GLBT section spans massive floors and is larger than most dedicated gay bookstores. Great for browsing after dinner or as a late-night outing.

Budget Bookstore
View Details
Friend's Tavern

Friend's Tavern

Bars 3.8 (76)

Queens' oldest active gay bar has been a local institution since 1989, before Chelsea was even a thing. Friend's Tavern pulls a mixed crowd of bears, twinks, daddies, and everyone in between with its Latin-themed energy, salsa and house music, and drag shows plus go-go boys and strippers. The vibe is playful and inclusive, with a loyal local following that makes newcomers feel welcome too. Happy hour runs from 4pm to 10pm daily with $3 beers and $4 drink specials, and Wednesday happy hour lasts all night. Thursday is karaoke night, Friday and Saturday feature DJ Joss spinning house, pop, and Latin beats, and Sunday's Bodylicious show brings exotic male dancers. You'll find outdoor seating, free WiFi, and a full bar, all just five blocks from the 74th Street subway.

Dancing Drag Shows Go-Go Boys/Strippers
$$ View Details
44 & X Hell's Kitchen

44 & X Hell's Kitchen

Restaurants 3.7 (69)

In Hell's Kitchen, 44 & X is a casual comfort food spot with a touch of luxury, opened in 2000 by two guys aiming to reinvent American classics. The menu blends American, European, fusion, and Latin-Spanish influences, and the owner, a third-generation butcher, hand-selects the steak. The vibe is mixed gay-straight, drawing a 30s-40s crowd for its Tony-themed cocktails and seasonal dishes. It's dog-friendly with outdoor seating and happy hour. The restaurant sits in a former gas station, a bit of local trivia that regulars know. It's a pre-theater favorite, steps from Broadway. Friday nights are busiest. The staff is professional and efficient. If you're visiting Katz's Delicatessen for a pastrami fix, consider 44 & X for a different kind of New York classic.

Cocktail Lounge Mixed Gay/Straight Moderate
$$$ View Details
New York City Ballet

New York City Ballet

Arts & Culture 4.4 (69)

You might expect a world-class ballet company to feel stuffy or exclusive, but New York City Ballet is anything but that. As one of the foremost dance companies globally, it's uniquely self-sufficient in US artistic history — training its own dancers and creating its own repertoire. The company operates out of the David H. Koch Theater at Lincoln Center on the Upper West Side, with a second permanent home in Saratoga Springs. It's a mixed-gaystraight crowd, drawn by the artistry rather than any single identity. The tagline "More than just hot bodies in tights" hints at the genuine athleticism and artistry on stage. Even if you're not into ballet, the company's performances are worth seeing — great dancing and choreography speak for themselves. The theater sits near Columbus and Amsterdam, making it easy to grab a pre-show bite or walk through Lincoln Center's plaza. If you're planning a full day out, the Metropolitan Museum of Art is nearby for a cultural doubleheader. Tickets are standard price for a major NYC arts venue.

Mixed Gay/Straight Standard Theater
$$ View Details
Museum of Sex

Museum of Sex

Arts & Culture 3.3 (67)

In Chelsea near 27th Street, the Museum of Sex opened in 2002 to preserve and present the history, evolution, and cultural significance of human sexuality. Its permanent installation, Super Funland: Journey into the Erotic Carnival, offers interactive games and rides. The museum's collection includes over 20,000 artifacts, from fine art to historical ephemera. You must be 18+ with a valid ID to enter. The museum has hosted over 30 exhibitions and 6 virtual installations, collaborating with artists and scholars. Reviews note engaging displays, like one on Gypsy Rose Lee, but also mention limited seating. Hours vary, with late closings on weekends. If you're exploring the area, the nearby Metropolitan Museum of Art offers a different kind of cultural experience.

Standard Museum
$$ View Details
The Ailey Studios

The Ailey Studios

Arts & Culture 67 ratings

Unlike many dance studios that focus solely on training, The Ailey Studios is a full performance venue and cultural community. Founded by Alvin Ailey in 1958, it's home to the acclaimed Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater and offers dance performances, training, and community programs for all people. The venue uses the beauty of African American heritage and other cultures to unite diverse audiences. It's family-friendly, all-ages, and mixed-gay-straight, making it a welcoming space for queer visitors. Reviews praise the transformative power of performances like those by the late Judith Jamison. You can catch world-class dance here without the stuffy atmosphere of a traditional theater. The studios also sell dancewear, so you can gear up before or after a show. For a night out, consider pairing a visit with a stop at The High Line, just a short walk away. Hell's Kitchen's lively restaurant scene makes it easy to grab dinner nearby.

Family Friendly Mixed Gay/Straight Moderate
$$$ View Details
Arriba Arriba

Arriba Arriba

Restaurants 3.4 (62)

Arriba Arriba has been a Hell's Kitchen staple since 1984, serving traditional Mexican fare in a lively cantina atmosphere. This family-owned spot is known for its famous 'Mama Margarita' and reliable dishes like tacos, enchiladas, and mole. The crowd is a mix of gay and straight locals, and the vibe shifts from laid-back weekend brunches to loud, party-fueled nights. They offer outdoor seating, a full bar, and happy hour specials. Daytime is the sweet spot for lower prices and a more relaxed scene, while evenings can get rowdy with the noise level. The staff has a reputation for being brusque, so don't expect coddling. Reservations are accepted, and dogs are welcome on the patio. It's a solid choice for comfort food and margaritas with friends.

Outdoor Seating Mixed Gay/Straight Standard
$$ View Details
The Metropolitan Opera

The Metropolitan Opera

Arts & Culture 4.5 (62)

The Metropolitan Opera, founded in 1883, presents over 200 opera performances each season at its Lincoln Center home. Known as the venue for the world's greatest voices, it stages classic works like La Boheme and Madama Butterfly alongside contemporary pieces. The massive stage has featured spectacles including an onstage lake for Turandot. Ticket prices start at $25 for rush tickets, and backstage tours offer a behind-the-scenes look at costume and wig departments. The Family Circle section provides budget-friendly seats with impressive views. If you're exploring Lincoln Center, the nearby Metropolitan Museum of Art is another cultural icon worth visiting.

Mixed Gay/Straight Moderate Performance Venue
$$$ View Details
American Museum of Natural History

American Museum of Natural History

Arts & Culture 4.1 (61)

You'll find a mix of families, tourists, and locals wandering the vast halls of the American Museum of Natural History on the Upper West Side. This 1869 institution houses over 34 million artifacts and specimens across 45 permanent exhibition halls, including the Rose Center for Earth and Space and the Hayden Planetarium. It's a sprawling museum that appeals to all ages, with a casual, lively vibe that makes it easy to spend hours exploring. General admission is standard priced, and the museum is family-friendly and good for groups. Note that it's a mixed crowd, not exclusively LGBTQ+, but everyone is welcome. The museum offers free Wi-Fi, and you can check ratings and hours before visiting. If you're planning a cultural day, the Metropolitan Museum of Art is another iconic spot nearby.

Family Friendly Mixed Gay/Straight Standard
$$ View Details
Metropolitan

Metropolitan

Bars 3.5 (60)

A fireplace crackles in winter and the heated patio stays busy year round at this Williamsburg mainstay. Open since 2002, Metropolitan welcomes a mixed LGBTQ+ crowd of twenty and thirty somethings who come for pool, karaoke, and the full bar. The staff lives up to the tagline: they're genuinely friendly. Happy hour draws a steady after work crowd, and weekends are the busiest. It's divey in the best way, with good dancing and a neighborhood feel.

Trans Friendly Drag Shows Outdoor Seating
$ View Details
Don't Tell Mama

Don't Tell Mama

Bars 3.5 (56)

This spot suits theatergoers, cabaret fans, and anyone wanting a pre-show drink or post-show night out. Don't Tell Mama has been a New York institution since 1982, offering four distinct spaces under one roof: a piano bar, a restaurant, and two separate cabaret showrooms. It's a casual, mixed LGBTQ+ crowd with live entertainment every night. The venue is open daily from 5pm until late, with extended hours until 3:30am on Fridays and Saturdays. Happy hour runs on select drinks, but reviews warn that drinks can be inconsistent and overpriced for Manhattan. Yelp confirms full bar, outdoor seating in season, and reservations are accepted. Best nights to visit are Thursday through Saturday.

Piano Bar Karaoke Mixed LGBTQ
$$$ View Details
Brooklyn Museum

Brooklyn Museum

Arts & Culture 4.4 (55)

Unlike Manhattan's mega-museums, the Brooklyn Museum offers world-class collections without the overwhelming crowds. Founded in 1897 as the anchor of a planned cultural district (alongside Prospect Park and the Brooklyn Botanic Garden), this museum is a favorite among locals and travelers alike. Its permanent collection includes the iconic feminist installation "The Dinner Party" by Judy Chicago and a striking series of rooms salvaged from historic New York mansions and apartments. The vibe is upscale yet family-friendly, with a generally mixed crowd. You'll find spacious galleries that let you breathe while viewing exhibits. The museum is open Wednesday through Sunday, 11am to 6pm. Regulars appreciate that it never feels as packed as the Met or MoMA, making it a calm spot for a queer-friendly cultural outing. Free wifi is available throughout. If you're looking to extend your art day, the Metropolitan Museum of Art is nearby, though it's a very different experience.

Family Friendly Mixed Gay/Straight Standard
$$ View Details
Leslie-Lohman Museum of Art

Leslie-Lohman Museum of Art

Arts & Culture 4.5 (54)

You'll find a diverse crowd here, from art enthusiasts to casual explorers, all drawn to the only LGBTQ-focused museum in NYC. The Leslie-Lohman Museum of Art, originally founded in 1990 as the Leslie/Lohman Gay Art Foundation, is the world's first accredited LGBTQ art museum. It's a casual, welcoming space that exhibits work directly tied to queer experience, from erotic and political to romantic and social themes. The museum also champions emerging and underrepresented LGBTQ artists, making every visit feel fresh and vital. Admission is free, and the gallery is open Wednesday through Sunday, noon to 6pm. Its Soho location makes it easy to pair with a walk through the neighborhood. Check the website for current exhibitions before you go.

Trans Friendly Mixed LGBTQ Standard
$$ View Details
Radio City Music Hall

Radio City Music Hall

Arts & Culture 4.3 (48)

Step inside and the massive Art Deco auditorium stops you cold. Radio City Music Hall opened in 1932 as the first building in the Rockefeller Center complex. With about 6,000 seats, it's hosted everyone from Aretha Franklin to Harry Styles, plus awards shows like the Tonys and Grammys. The Rockettes' Christmas Spectacular is its annual draw, but the calendar runs year-round with concerts and family shows. For queer visitors, it's a mainstream venue that's hosted LGBTQ icons like Lady Gaga and Lizzo. The acoustics are stellar, and the Great Stage is one of the biggest in the world. Arrive early to admire the Grand Foyer's art and mirrors. It's a cab ride away from the Museum of Modern Art (MoMA) if you're making a day of Midtown culture.

Mixed LGBTQ Mixed Gay/Straight Standard
$$ View Details
Saks Fifth Avenue

Saks Fifth Avenue

Shops 3.1 (45)

Saks Fifth Avenue's flagship isn't a typical gay boutique, but it has been a queer shopping landmark for decades. Ten floors cover a full city block in Midtown, stocking Prada, Gucci, D&G, and emerging designers. The sheer square footage gives it a selection wider than any competitor, even if Barneys has stolen some of its fashion-forward thunder. It's a place where you can spend hours wandering from international luxury to sundries, and it's dog-friendly per Yelp. Head here during the holidays for the famous window displays, but be warned: the layout can feel chaotic and it's often packed with tourists and busy clerks. Locals prefer weekday mornings for a calmer experience. If you're nearby, Chelsea Market offers a different vibe for shopping and eats. This is one of the most recognizable gay shops in New York, though the crowds might send you back to browsing online.

Lesbian Expensive Moderate
$$$$ View Details
TKTS Times Square

TKTS Times Square

Arts & Culture 4 (45)

TKTS Times Square is open from 3pm on weekdays and 11am on other days, making it a reliable stop for same-day Broadway and Off-Broadway tickets at up to 50% off. Since 1973, the Theatre Development Fund has run this discount booth in the heart of Times Square. There's a separate line for plays only, typically with no wait, so you can skip the musical rush. Look for the iconic big red steps. The booth sells tickets for dozens of productions daily, including next-day matinees. It's a budget-friendly option for queer travelers wanting to catch a show without paying full price. While not specifically LGBTQ+ focused, the crowd is mixed and welcoming. The outdoor setting means you'll be standing in line, so dress for the weather. Check the hours online before heading out, especially on Monday and Tuesday when they open later.

Outdoor Seating Mixed LGBTQ Mixed Gay/Straight
View Details
Hardware

Hardware

Bars 3.5 (44)

Walk into a former hardware store turned into a sleek, modern watering hole. Hardware keeps things low-key but lively, with affordable drinks and late-night drag shows that pull a mixed crowd of 20-somethings and locals. Happy hour runs from 4 to 9 PM, so grab a cheap drink on the patio or inside by the video screens. It's open until 4am every night, making it a solid last stop in Hell's Kitchen.

Dancing Drag Shows Outdoor Seating
$$ View Details
Uniqlo

Uniqlo

Shops 3.9 (44)

Uniqlo is a Japanese clothing brand that delivers quality basics at accessible prices, with jeans under $100 and free hemming included. Their NYC store in Soho is known for a wider selection of cool t-shirt designs compared to Japanese locations. The store is dog-friendly and stocks menswear, womenswear, and children's clothing. You'll find high-quality Japanese denim in various washes and styles, plus cashmere and other essentials. It's a reliable stop for affordable wardrobe staples in a neighborhood full of other shopping options.

Standard Clothing Accessories
$$ View Details
The Toolbox Bar

The Toolbox Bar

Bars 44 ratings

The Toolbox Bar is a no-attitude neighborhood gay bar in the Upper East Side, offering happy hour specials and a casual vibe. Go-go boys and dancers work the bar, and the crowd is diverse with a mix of 20-somethings and 30-somethings. A downstairs backroom adds a cruising element, while the outdoor seating and video screens give you options to hang out or move around. Perry, the bartender-owner, learns regulars' names, and the staff keeps things friendly. Happy hour draws a lively crowd, and the space is small but welcoming. If you're looking for a local spot with dancing and entertainment, this is it.

Backroom Go-Go Boys/Strippers Outdoor Seating
$$ View Details
Chelsea Market

Chelsea Market

Shops 4.3 (43)

Chelsea Market is best suited for food lovers and shoppers who want a taste of Manhattan's culinary scene. Housed in the former National Biscuit Company factory where the Oreo was invented, this iconic food hall brings together over 51 vendors selling wine, cheese, fruit, sandwiches, and kitchen supplies. It's also the home base for the Food Network, so you might spot a celebrity chef between bites. With a Yelp rating of 4.3 from over 2,600 reviews, it's a reliable stop for locals and travelers alike. The market's stripped-down brick architecture reflects its industrial past, and the mix of vendors means you can grab lunch, shop for gifts, or satisfy a sweet tooth at spots like Amy's Bread or Fat Witch. It's open daily from 7am to 10pm, making it easy to fit into any itinerary. The nearby High Line and Meatpacking District are worth exploring before or after your visit.

Mixed LGBTQ Mixed Gay/Straight Standard
$$ View Details
HK Hall

HK Hall

Bars 41 ratings

Walk into a retro 70s music hall with an open-air rooftop that makes every show feel like a private party. HK Hall hosts concerts and events that draw a mixed straight-gay crowd from all over New York. The space is trans-friendly, families are welcome, and the whole place operates on a live-entertainment energy that feels genuinely inclusive. This venue was Stage 48 before its current incarnation, and it's owned by a Stonewall veteran who was actually there in 1969. That bit of history gives the place more weight than your typical Hell's Kitchen bar. The rooftop lounge is the real draw for groups, especially when the weather's good.

Trans Friendly Dancing Performance
$$$ View Details
Macy's

Macy's

Shops 3.1 (40)

If you're a fan of department store shopping, Macy's Herald Square is the place for you. This iconic flagship store on 34th Street has been a New York institution since 1902. You'll find a wide selection of clothing, accessories, housewares, gifts, and furniture. It's dog friendly, so feel free to bring your pup along. The store is always busy, and customer service can be hit or miss. Many locals avoid it due to crowds and rude staff. But if you need a specific item and it's your only option, you can find it here. The store stays open late until 9pm on weekdays and 10pm on weekends. For a more curated experience, check out Saks Fifth Avenue nearby.

Moderate Clothing Accessories Furniture
$$$ View Details
Suite

Suite

Bars 3.7 (40)

A recent renovation gave this cozy gay bar a fresh start. Suite now feels clean and friendly, a true neighborhood spot on the Upper West Side where the staff remembers your drink. Karaoke draws a lively crowd, though some nights it can get obnoxious. Head in early evening for a quieter vibe, or hit Monday's all-night happy hour. The crowd leans collegiate and local, with mix of ages and orientations. If you're looking for a rowdy scene, this might feel too quiet.

Trans Friendly Dancing Drag Shows
$$ View Details
International Center of Photography

International Center of Photography

Arts & Culture 3.9 (39)

The International Center for Photography is the world's leading institution dedicated to photography and visual culture. It functions as both a museum and a school, recently relocated to the Lower East Side. Through its exhibitions and classes, ICP explores the power and evolution of the photographic medium. The ICP spans a full city block on Essex Street. Free wifi is available. If you're exploring nearby, the Museum of Modern Art (MoMA) is also in the area.

Mixed Gay/Straight Standard Museum
$$ View Details
Madison Square Garden

Madison Square Garden

Arts & Culture 4.1 (39)

Unlike Broadway theaters or comedy clubs, Madison Square Garden seats up to 21,000 fans for the biggest concerts and sports events. Since 1879, MSG has hosted Knicks and Rangers championships, Billy Joel's monthly residency, and groundbreaking boxing matches like the 2022 Taylor vs. Serrano fight featuring two female headliners. The crowd skews mixed gay and straight, and the energy is huge for pop icons like Lady Gaga and Harry Styles, who played 15 shows here in 2022. You'll find a full bar and free WiFi, but box office hours are limited to weekdays 9:30am-3pm (closed evenings). For a quieter queer-friendly arts stop nearby, check out the Museum of Modern Art (MoMA). Come for the spectacle, not the intimacy; every event leaves you with a story.

Mixed LGBTQ Mixed Gay/Straight Moderate
$$$ View Details
Ginger's Bar

Ginger's Bar

Bars 3.5 (37)

The pool table and outdoor garden make Ginger's Bar a neighborhood staple. This landmark lesbian bar has been welcoming women, trans folks, and queer friends since 1995, with a full bar and craft beer options. Weekend hours stretch to 4am, and the outdoor garden is popular in warmer months. Happy hour draws a mix of locals and 20-somethings looking for a casual dive vibe. Go there right now.

Lesbian Trans Friendly Outdoor Seating
$$ View Details