Gay Bars, Hotels & Venues in St. Louis, MO — 67 LGBTQ+ Spots

A mixed crowd of 20s to 40s fills this sprawling gay nightclub in the Grove. Multiple rooms, a performance stage, and a large packed patio give you plenty of space to dance, watch drag shows, or sing karaoke. The vibe is social and energetic, with friendly bartenders and roaming shot boys adding to the fun. Free food pops up regularly: a buffet some nights, free pizza other times. DJ Danny spins weekends at the patio bar, and Sunday Broadway videos get everyone singing along. It's adults-only and pet-friendly, run by owners John and Jeromy who keep things clean and well-staffed. Bachelorette parties sometimes roll through on weekends, but the locals still hold the floor.

Don't expect a stuffy cocktail lounge. Rehab Bar And Grill is a casual gay nightclub where the motto is leave your attitude at the door. The Grove bar has been open since 2012 and serves drinks, hosts drag shows, and runs karaoke and happy hour specials. The crowd leans 20s to 30s, mixed locals and visitors. It's smoke free inside, with a full bar and outdoor seating. Check their schedule for drag shows, especially on weekends.

You might expect a bathhouse to be just a steam room and maybe a sauna, but The Club St. Louis layers on a full gym, a sky-lit Jacuzzi, tanning beds, and an adult film lounge. The Club St. Louis, also known as Club STL, is a men's club in downtown St. Louis with a dedicated local following. It's dog-friendly and offers 24-hour access, so you can visit whenever it fits your schedule. The membership model keeps costs reasonable: about $15 for a three-month membership plus $12 for a locker rental. Regulars note the facility could use some updates, and the private rooms are small. The steam sauna is a highlight, though the shower count is limited. Reviews mention a mixed-age crowd, with a notable number of older men. The music policy has drawn some criticism for playing pop and show tunes rather than something more ambient, which may or may not bother you. If you go, expect a relaxed, no-pressure vibe regardless of your age or type.

Tower Grove East's Grey Fox Pub is a budget-friendly dive bar that calls itself a "drag wonderland." Drag shows run Friday and Saturday at 10pm and Sunday at 9pm, drawing a mixed crowd of locals in their 30s through 50s. Happy hour runs weekdays from 2pm to 7pm with $2 Smirnoff Martinis and $2.50 domestics and rail drinks. Yelp reviews mention a resident cat roaming the bar, which adds a quirky touch. The pub is adults-only and has a full bar plus outdoor seating. Note that some online reviews criticize the building's condition and cleanliness, so come for the strong cheap drinks and drag performances rather than a polished interior. Reservations are accepted.

CheapTrx stands apart from other St. Louis shops by combining three distinct retail spaces under one roof: a front area with cards, books, T-shirts, and alternative clothing; a tattoo and piercing parlor many call the best in the city; and a downstairs adult shop with toys, lube, fetish gear, and adult magazines and DVDs. The whole place is mixed gay and straight, with a social vibe where clients hang out after their sessions. Located on South Grand, it fills a gap for anyone tired of typical adult stores. The tattoo parlor is extremely clean with talented artists. Expect standard pricing and a friendly staff. If you have time, stop by Left Bank Books nearby for more local browsing.

Soulard's only weekly drag show happens here on Monday nights at 9pm. This neighborhood gay bar is anchored by a hand-carved wooden bar built during Prohibition, inside a building over 150 years old. The decor is eclectic: record-album lined bathrooms, sci-fi robots, and old games and memorabilia on the walls. It's divey, casual, and straight-friendly. The crowd tends to be 30s through 50s, not a twink or hookup scene. You can play pool or darts, and there's limited fried bar food. Happy hour runs daily 11am-5pm. Live DJ on Friday and Sunday nights. It's a good spot to settle in for conversation or look around at the museum-like scenery.

You might expect a children's museum, but City Museum in St. Louis is closer to a surrealist playground. It's an interactive funhouse built from reclaimed architectural artifacts, featuring man-made caverns, indoor slides, a circus ring with live acts, and a shark tank with a crawl-through tunnel. The place is mixed-gay-straight and skews adults, too, perfect for a date or a solo adventure. It's been a downtown staple since 1997. Hours run daily 10am, closing at 6pm most nights but 9pm on Fridays and Saturdays. You'll find it on Delmar Boulevard. The $13.20 price tag is reasonable for a full day of exploration. Bring your curiosity and a sense of adventure.

MoKaBe's Coffeehouse is a St. Louis institution that locals know as the coffee shop queers love. It’s a relaxed, mixed crowd hangout with a homey two-level layout: the quieter upstairs is perfect for reading or laptop work, while the downstairs is built for conversation and meeting new people. The menu leans American with sandwiches, baked goods, and vegetarian-friendly options, and the Sunday brunch draws a loyal crowd. Prices are standard for the category. The vibe is low-key and welcoming, with outdoor seating on South Grand when weather permits. Hours are currently listed as Tuesday through Sunday from 8am to 3pm, though this is unconfirmed, so check ahead if you’re planning an early weekday visit. Regulars appreciate the fair-priced coffee and friendly staff who treat everyone like a neighbor.

In St. Louis's Southside, this gay pub draws a mixed, loyal crowd with its casual patio and no-frills atmosphere. The outdoor seating area is dog friendly and often hosts live music and drag shows. Open late every night, Hummel's Pub has a full bar and free Wi-Fi. Budget-conscious drinkers will appreciate the happy hour deals. While the space is modest, regulars say the community vibe more than compensates.

Walk into Joanie's and you'll smell classic Italian dishes like pizza and pasta. This Soulard spot is a favorite for take-out and delivery, with a casual, mixed crowd that includes hockey fans, locals, and families. People grab a slice before Blues games and hop on the free shuttle. The two-level layout gives you choices: downstairs is smoking, upstairs is non-smoking and tends to have kids around game time. It's a straightforward, gay-friendly place to eat, not a late-night scene. If you're looking for quicker options nearby, Rooster is just up the street for brunch.

A visit to Blueberry Hill feels like stepping into a pop culture time capsule, with over 800 celebrity autographs and 80 pinball machines covering every wall and corner. It's a casual American diner and pizza joint famous for its jerk chicken, drawing a mixed crowd of locals and tourists to the Loop neighborhood. The place stays open until 1:30 am Monday through Saturday, making it a late-night option when other spots have closed. It's also part of the Walk of Fame district, with plaques in the sidewalk outside. If you're exploring the area, Pappy's Smokehouse is another nearby stop for barbecue lovers.

This isn't just another riverfront restaurant. Boathouse combines a casual restaurant with a boat rental, all set in St. Louis's Forest Park. The menu sticks to American classics: burgers, chili, pizza, and sandwiches. It draws a mixed gay and straight crowd, making it a relaxed spot for anyone. The outdoor seating lets you enjoy the park views while you eat. Reviews point out the service is strong, though food quality and pricing draw mixed feedback. The real draw is the boat rental — it's what sets this place apart. You'll want to time your visit between Tuesday and Sunday, when the kitchen is open. For a different meal nearby, Pappy's Smokehouse offers standout barbecue just a short drive away.

If you're after a relaxed pub meal with a mixed crowd, Culpeppers in the Central West End fits the bill. Its claim to fame is a build-your-own burger setup, plus wings that regulars order by the dozen. The menu also covers pizza, Italian dishes, and sandwiches, so there's more than just patties and poultry. Weekday hours start at 3 pm, making it a solid late-lunch or early-dinner stop. Saturday opens at 11 am, and Sunday hours are listed as 11 pm to 8 pm (unconfirmed). It's near Maryland Avenue, easy to find.

You'll find a mixed gay-straight crowd here, drawn by the classic Italian dishes and historic charm. Mama's On The Hill has been a staple in the neighborhood formerly known as Mama Campisi's Ristorante, and it's known nationwide for its housemade salad dressings. It's a relaxed spot for pizza, seafood, or coffee. Prices are moderate to standard, and hours are daily from 11 am to 10 pm. For a change of scene, Pappy's Smokehouse is nearby.

The dining room at Chava's has a warm, worn-in feel, with the kind of low buzz that says regulars. This gay-owned Mexican spot in Soulard opened in 2006, replacing the old Mike and Min's music bar. Owner Chris Ybarra brought family recipes from his grandfather Salvador — 'Chava' for short — and built a place that feels like a neighborhood staple. The menu leans Mexican and Latin-Spanish, with tapas-style small plates alongside full entrees. Yelp confirms a 4.2 rating from 563 reviews, and the Yelp data confirms outdoor seating, a full bar, and dog-friendly patios. Happy hour draws a mixed crowd, and the vibe stays casual. Warm chips come free, portions are generous, and prices sit at standard mid-range. Sundays open at 1pm instead of 11am. If you're in Soulard and want something beyond bar pizza, Chava's is the spot.

The smell of smoked meat hits you before you even get inside. Pappy's Smokehouse in downtown St. Louis serves some of the city's best BBQ, with pork getting star treatment. The Travel Channel named it one of the 101 Best Places To Chow Down In America, and the place stays busy for good reason. Stick to standard BBQ fare here: brisket, pork, ribs, chicken. If you're feeling ambitious, tackle the Big Ben, a 6-pound mountain of meats and sides. Beer and wine are available, but for a bigger selection, head next door to Buffalo Brewing. Portions are generous and prices are fair. Popular items like turkey and pulled chicken sell out later in the day, so come early. You'll also find Frito pie and loaded potatoes. The staff is friendly, and outdoor seating is an option. Closed Tuesdays and limited hours the rest of the week, so plan ahead.

This isn't a typical gift shop. Patricia's is an adult novelty and card store that's been serving St. Louis for decades, stocking party gags, massage supplies, personal lubricants, and yes, birthday cards. The vibe is no-nonsense and practical, with a mixed crowd of gay and straight customers browsing the shelves. You'll find things here you won't see anywhere else in town. Patricia's keeps late hours, open until midnight on Fridays and Saturdays. That makes it a convenient stop for last-minute needs. The staff is known for being helpful without hovering. If you're looking for something specific, just ask. Parking is on the street, and it's easy to get to from Grand. For book lovers, nearby Left Bank Books is worth a visit too.

Fortel's Pizza Den has been a family-owned staple in St. Louis since 1981, serving brick oven pizzas with over 30 topping choices. The outdoor patio seats more than 100 people, making it a go-to for casual Italian fare in a relaxed setting. It's a mixed crowd spot, welcoming everyone from queer folks to families. You'll find gluten-free pizza here, plus beer and wine to wash it down. Reservations are accepted, so it's easy to plan a group outing. The vibe is low-key, and the dog-friendly patio is a favorite for regulars. If you're nearby, Pappy's Smokehouse is another local legend worth checking out.

What sets Everest Cafe & Bar apart is its owner's story and triple cuisine lineup. Dr. Devi States, a Nepalese-born psychologist turned restaurateur, runs this family spot in the heart of The Grove. The affordable lunch buffet is always packed. You'll find Himalayan, Korean, and Indian dishes prepared fresh without processed ingredients or heavy fats. The vibe is casual and mixed, welcoming everyone from regulars to first-timers. Go for the buffet between 11:30am and 2pm on Wednesdays through Sundays. Reservations are accepted, and there's outdoor seating when the weather cooperates. The full bar includes happy hour specials. If you want a change of scenery, Pappy's Smokehouse is nearby for barbecue.

This hotel works best for travelers who want a central downtown location steps from the Gateway Arch, plus the flexibility of bringing their dog. It's a mixed-straight-gay property that attracts families and business visitors, with a notable LGBTQ+ connection through the annual HiBearNation event sponsored by Show Me Bears of St. Louis. The rooms are clean and modern after a remodel. Staff get consistent praise for being friendly. You'll find the rooftop area worth a visit for Arch views, especially at sunset, even though the pool has been filled in. The in-house Red Kitchen is a standout for dishes like chicken piccata. Downtown gay bars are a short cab ride away. For a nearby alternative, consider The Westin St. Louis, which is also in the downtown area.

Near Berick Drive, House of India is the oldest Indian restaurant in St. Louis, open since 1994. The owner describes regulars as family, and the kitchen turns out authentic Indian food with a strong vegetarian focus. It's a casual spot with a mixed crowd, welcoming everyone. Dogs are welcome on the patio, and there's free WiFi. Reservations are taken. Beer and wine are available. Sunday is the only day for the lunch buffet. You'll find a loyal clientele here, drawn by the consistency and the owner's hands-on approach. If you're craving Indian food, this longtime local staple delivers.

If you're looking for a St. Louis restaurant with serious old-school flair, The Fountain On Locust is for you. This Art Deco gem serves scratch-made American fare alongside retro cocktails and over-the-top ice cream. It's famously home to "America's Best Restroom" and the original 1916 Stutz Car Dealership interior is decked out with hand-painted murals by former owner Joy Grdnic. The Polish Dill Pickle Soup and Ice Cream Martinis are local icons here. The vibe is casual but transportive, with witty banter from the staff and a radio comedy serial playing in the booths. It's a mixed crowd, great for a date or a solo ice cream fix. Reservations are accepted and there's a full bar with happy hour specials. Weekends get busier, especially Friday and Saturday nights when they stay open until midnight. Regulars know the rotating selection of 52 award-winning soups is a highlight; try the World's Smallest Hot Fudge Sundae for a fun bite. The place is LGBTQ-friendly and welcoming to all. If you're exploring the neighborhood, Square One Brewery & Distillery is another nearby spot worth checking out for craft beer and spirits.

You might not expect a Greek restaurant to also win best burger awards, but Olympia Kebob House and Taverna defies assumptions. This family-owned spot on Manchester Avenue has been serving authentic homemade Greek cuisine since 1980, consistently voted the best gyro in St. Louis. It's a casual, mixed gay-straight hangout with a full bar, free WiFi, and outdoor seating. Locals know to grab a seat on the patio when weather permits. Reservations are accepted, which is handy on weekend evenings. The space is no-frills, and the crowd is a friendly mix of regulars and first-timers. If you're nearby, Pappy's Smokehouse is worth a stop for barbecue another day.

A Yelp reviewer sums it up: "excellent Thai food" at King & I Thai Cuisine, a St. Louis Southside staple. This casual cafe serves dinner only, from 4pm to 8:30pm daily. The mixed gay-straight crowd and dog-friendly patio keep it unpretentious and welcoming. You'll find standard Thai dishes without frills, priced at the $$ level. The vibe is low-key, perfect for a weeknight meal. Regulars appreciate the consistency and friendly service. It's not a late-night spot, so plan to arrive early. If you're exploring the neighborhood, Square One Brewery & Distillery is nearby for a post-dinner drink.

Bailey's Chocolate Bar sets itself apart from other St. Louis restaurants by centering its menu and cocktails around chocolate. The cozy Lafayette Square spot has been named one of the best first date locations, offering appetizers and coffee alongside its signature chocolate drinks. It's open late until 1am Monday through Saturday. The atmosphere is welcoming to mixed LGBTQ and straight crowds. You'll find it on the quieter side of the neighborhood, making it a good choice for conversation. Sunday hours are unconfirmed and the venue is currently closed temporarily.

One Yelp reviewer described a 1.5-hour wait despite reservations, but Tony's has been a St. Louis institution since 1946. Vince Bommarito took over his father's Tony's Spaghetti House with a vision to create the finest Italian restaurant in the city. Tableside service is the signature, and ingredients like hand-cut prime steaks and Atlantic fish flown in daily reflect the commitment. The atmosphere is upscale, with dressy attire expected and a full bar. Tony's is rated 3.9 stars on Yelp from 287 reviews. Reservations are strongly suggested, and the restaurant offers outdoor seating and free wifi. The Yelp listing currently notes the venue may be permanently closed, so check before you go. If you're in the mood for barbecue, Pappy's Smokehouse is a nearby alternative.

Rooster serves breakfast and lunch daily from 8am to 2pm, making it a reliable stop for an early meal in St. Louis's Loft District. It's been voted both Best Breakfast and Best New Restaurant by Sauce magazine readers. The menu focuses on crepes, sandwiches, and baked goods, with coffee and a full bar available. You can sit outside with your dog, and free wifi is included. The vibe is casual and mixed-gay-straight crowd-wise. Weekends bring a brunch rush, so aim for weekday mornings if you want a quieter experience. Afterward, you're walking distance to The Fountain On Locust for a classic soda fountain dessert.

Shameless Grounds is open 10am to 10pm daily, making it a flexible stop for coffee or a bite any time. This cafe in a warehouse neighborhood serves coffee shop food that goes beyond the usual, with outdoor seating and free wifi for customers. The vibe is casual and unpretentious, a local gem for those in the know. Yelp shows a 4.5 rating, but the venue may be permanently closed, so check ahead before heading out. If it's open, it's a solid spot for a quiet afternoon coffee or a quick meal. Nearby, Pappy's Smokehouse offers a very different experience if you're in the mood for barbecue instead.

Think a family deli can't be a gay-friendly spot? Adriana's on the Hill proves otherwise. This Italian-inspired lunch-only cafe is run by Adriana Fazio and two of her daughters, with extended family helping out. You order at one window and pick up at another, a classic deli system that keeps things moving. The menu covers Sicilian-American salads, pizza, pasta, and sandwiches, plus homemade soups and daily specials. Beer and wine are available by the glass, and the atmosphere is casual and welcoming. Yelp confirms dog-friendly outdoor seating, and reviewers consistently note how gay-friendly it is. The vibe here is all about feeling like you've come home for lunch. Adriana herself is the soul of the place, making everyone feel welcome. Saturdays are especially lively, so that's your best bet for a fuller crowd. Hours are tight: Tuesday through Saturday, 10:30 a.m. to 3:00 p.m., closed Sunday and Monday. No full bar, but beer is usually available and wine on occasion. Regulars check Facebook for daily specials before heading over.

You'll find a mixed gay-straight crowd here, drawn by the alluring atmosphere and innovative Latin-Spanish and Mexican tapas. The space has a sexy appeal, with fiery cocktails and hotter dishes to match. Hours are a bit quirky: Tuesday through Thursday from 4pm to 9pm, Saturday from midnight to 10pm, and Sunday from 3pm to 9pm (unconfirmed). It's in Midtown near S Boyle Ave. For barbecue nearby, Pappy's Smokehouse is a solid follow-up.